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5 Tips for Co-Parenting During the Holidays

The holiday season is a special time filled with joy and cheer, but for divorced parents, it can also be a stressful time trying to navigate co-parenting arrangements. Co-parenting during the holidays can bring up a lot of emotions and logistical challenges, but with the right mindset and some helpful tips, it can be a smooth and enjoyable experience for everyone involved. In this blog post, we’ll explore some practical tips for co-parenting during the holidays that can help you and your ex-partner work together for the sake of your children.

Holiday Co-Parenting Tips

Co-parenting during the holidays can be challenging, but it’s essential to prioritize your children’s happiness and prioritize peaceful co-parenting. By following these five tips, you can make the holidays special for your children while also reducing stress and tension with your ex-partner:

  1. Start Planning Early – As with any important event, planning for the holidays as a divorced co-parent requires an early start. Discuss holiday plans with your ex-partner as early as possible to avoid last-minute disagreements and stress. Have a clear understanding of which parent will have the children on which days, and stick to the agreed-upon schedule. If things need to be adjusted, be open and flexible with each other, but always communicate any changes in advance.
  2. Keep the Focus on the Children – During the holidays, it’s crucial to put your children first and keep their best interests in mind. Remember that the holidays are not about you or your ex-partner, but about making them special for your children. Consider what your children enjoy most about the holidays and try to create similar experiences in both households. Coordinate gift-giving to prevent competition and resentment, and encourage your kids to share their holiday experiences with both parents.
  3. Make New Traditions – Creating new traditions is a fantastic way to make the holidays special for your children, especially if it’s their first holiday season post-divorce. Talk to your kids about their favorite holiday traditions and try to incorporate them into a new family tradition that works for both households. Starting new traditions can help your children have something to look forward to and can be a fun way to begin new memories as a family.
  4. Be Civil and Respectful – Co-parenting during the holidays can be particularly challenging when past hurts and resentments are brought to the surface. To make the experience more comfortable, be civil and respectful to your ex-partner in all interactions. Avoid bringing up past issues at holiday events, as it’s best to focus on the present moment and create happy memories with your children. Remember, your behavior sets the tone for the holidays, and the children will benefit from a positive and peaceful experience.
  5. Take Care of Yourself – Divorced co-parenting during the holidays can be emotionally draining, particularly if it’s the first time you’re spending the holidays alone. It’s essential to make time to take care of yourself and prioritize your mental health. Take some time out to do things that make you happy and recharge your batteries, whether it’s taking a long bath, going for a walk, or meeting up with friends. Remember, your mental and physical well-being directly impacts your children’s happiness, so take care of yourself to take care of them.

With the right mindset and actions, you and your ex-partner can create a happy holiday experience that your children will cherish for a lifetime.

How Is Child Custody Determined in Oklahoma?

Child custody is typically determined through a legal process that focuses on what is in the best interest of the child. Several factors are considered when making this determination. These may include the following:

  • The child’s age
  • The physical and mental health of all parties involved
  • The child’s personal feelings (depending on their age and maturity)
  • The ability of each parent to provide a stable home environment
  • The child's relationships with siblings and other family members
  • Each parent’s willingness to support the child’s relationship with the other parent

Often, courts encourage parents to reach an agreement on child custody and visitation rights. However, if parents cannot agree, the court will make a decision. It's important to remember that each case is unique, and what works best for one child may not work best for another.

If you have any questions about child custody and the next steps in the court process, please feel free to reach out to Nichols Dixon online or give us a call at (405) 294-1511. Our experienced family law attorneys in Norman are here to help you and provide you with the information you need.

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